Monday, March 30, 2009

survey

1] Two names you go by?..ena..rina..erina..arianna..cerry..
2] Four things you are wearing right now?..babyt..jeans..headphone..lingerie..haha
3] Does someone love you?..i don't know..
5] Have you ever licked a photo ?..never!..yaks!
6] Have you ever been in LOVE?..yesss!
7] Do you believe that every one has a soul- mate?..yess!
8] What' s your current problem?..lazy yg teramat! stupid!shit!!!
9] Have you ever had your heart broken?..broken-heart?noo...broken-soul?yesss...
11] Are you a loser ?..i am! huh?
12] How many kids do you want to have?..as many as i cannn...yeaahhhaa!
13] What is/are your favorite colors?..gold!
15] Have you ever found it hard to tell anyone you like them?..a bit hard!
16] Imagine you're 40 & your spouse just died would you get re- married?..i don't think so
17] At what age did you start noticing the opposite sex?..19 maybe..
18] What song do you want to play at your wedding?..selamat pengantin baru lah!
19] Do you like anyone?..yess..i like him@!
20] Do you think the person you like likes you back?..hmm...maybe
21] Have you ever wrote a love song? poem?..yess..
22) Do you want to get married?..of course!
23) Are you a shy person?..sometimes..
24) Did u have a good day today ?..noo..no no..
25) Where did u just get back from?..kl..kl..
26) What are you thinking about ?..how to manage myself..
28) Would you ever go back to any of your past relationships?..if we were meant to be..y not?
29) Who's the closest person to you?..i don't know!

wanita perlukan lelaki?

Mengapa wanita memerlukan lelaki di dalam hidupnya? Ya, apa perlu seorang wanita yang bebas mempertaruhkan sebahagian besar hidupnya kepada tangan seorang lelaki?

Kawan, Cinta tidak datang dipaksa-paksa. Cinta tidak juga datang kala kita mahukannya. Jika kita mahukan ia menjadi air, ia datang seperti api. Tetapi, jika kita bersabar dan menerima ketentuan Tuhan, seorang lelaki yang baik akan didatangkan kepada kita juga. Lelaki yang baik itu tidak turun dari langit. Lelaki yang baik itu juga tidak semestinya datang dengan kepala berketayap, janggut selambak atau harta membuak-buak.

Tetapi lelaki yang baik, jika Tuhan mahukan dia menemani kita sepanjang hayat, membimbing kelakuan kita, menjaga kemurnian kalbu bersama-sama, mendidik, membuka jalan agar kita dapat memperdalami selok belok agama yang barangkali selama ini hanya menjadi pakaian dan lencana, dan memberikan kita zuriat yang halal lagi dirahmatiNya ? Dia akan datang apabila tiba masanya. Lambat atau cepat, maafkan saya, kerana Allah itu yang lebih mengetahui.

Kawan, kedatangan seorang lelaki dalam kehidupan seorang wanita seperti manusia kudung yang diberikan semula sebelah kakinya. Dia, menyempurnakan kita. Namun, tidak kira semasyhuk mana sekalipun perkasihan dua jantina, selain perkara yang cantik-cantik dan molek-molek, kita, wanita, harus bersedia menerima kehodohan-kehodohan perhubungan.

Kerana apabila kita mempersilakan seorang lelaki duduk di samping kita untuk sepanjang hayat, bererti kita harus langsung juga mempersilakan sekian masalahnya berbaring di bahu kita. Kerana itu tidak hairan jika kita mendengar ada di kalangan kita, gadis, yang merungut-rungut kerana tanggungjawabnya terhadap keperluan hidup lelaki tidak juga berkurangan walaupun belum lagi berkahwin.

Ya, lelaki memang mendatangkan bahagia. Tetapi lelaki juga mendatangkan sengsara. Tetapi jika kita bijak menatangnya, semuanya pasti baik-baik sahaja. Namun itulah adat dalam perhubungan. Yang buruk-buruk pasti ada .Barangkali daripada si dia, barangkali juga daripada kita, tetapi kita harus cermat mengimbangkannya agar jodoh berkekalan ke hari tua?

Bagi yang sedang galak bercinta dengan lelaki permata jiwa tetapi menerima tentangan famili dua pihak, jika anda fikir anda tidak mungkin mampu hidup bahagia tanpa restu ibu bapa, maka ada baiknya anda menyerah kalah saja. Walaupun tidak saling memiliki, dan cinta tidak juga diwali dan dinikahi, anda dan dia tetap pengantin di dalam jiwa. Barangkali sudah sampai masanya anda mencari sahaja lelaki lain untuk dibawa pulang menemui ibu bapa.

Wanita, kita dicipta dengan kemuliaan syahadah. Kerana benih seorang lelaki, kita ini tersenyawa, dikurnia tenaga sehingga kita mampu menyibak jalan keluar dari rahim ibu untuk melihat dunia. Kerana benih seorang lelaki, kita ini ditiupkan jiwa, menjadi manusia, dan mencari seorang lelaki untuk dicintai, sebagaimana ibu diilhamkan Tuhan untuk berkasih sayang dengan bapa. Dan kerana Tuhan yang Maha Kuasa dan Maha Pencipta, kita wanita, kita ini diciptakan daripada lengkungan rusuk kiri lelaki, tidak terlalu gaha sehingga mengenepi kudrat lelaki, tidak juga terlalu lemah sehingga jatuh menyembah kaki.

Tetapi kerana ciptaan Tuhan itu indah, kita terbit daripada rusuk lelaki, bukan dekat kepala untuk dijunjungi, bukan dekat bahu untuk membebani, bukan dekat lengan untuk dijulangi, bukan dekat jari untuk disakiti, bukan dekat pinggul untuk dihenyaki, bukan dekat lutut untuk ditindihi, bukan dekat kaki untuk ditunggangi, tetapi dekat pelusuk hati ? Untuk dimulia, disayangi dan dicintai.

Andai lelaki itu burung yang terbang, kita adalah angin lembut yang bersisir-sisiran sepanjang perjalanannya. Tetapi kerana fitrah kejadian Tuhan wanita itu kebergantungan hidupnya harus saja diserahkan kepada seorang lelaki yang boleh melindungi, maka kita pun tidak selamanya mahu menjadi angin semata-mata. Kita mahu menjadi bunga, menghias sayapnya. Kita mahu terus bersama-sama, terbang dari rendah perkebunan bunga sehingga ke sayup langit terbuka, sehingga jalannya yang paling hujung, sehingga kita tua, rapuh dan mati. Tetapi kita bahagia dalam dakapannya.

Semoga kita semua diketemukan dengan jodoh yang baik… amin..

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Like A Star - Corrine Bailey Rae

Just like a star across my sky
Just like an angel of the page
You have appeared to my life
Feel like I'll never be the same

Just like a song in my heart
Just like oil on my hands
Oh, little love, you

Still I wonder why it is
I don't argue like this
With anyone but you
You do it all the time
Blowin' out my mind

You got this look I can't describe
You make me feel I'm alive
When everything else is so fake
Without a doubt you're on my side

Heaven has been away too long
Can't find the words to write this song
Oh, your love

Still I wonder why it is
I don't argue like this
With anyone but you
You do it all the time
Blowin' out my mind

Yeah uh huh
na na na na na na

I have come to understand the way it is
It is not a secret anymore
'Cause we've been through that before
From tonight I know that you're the only one
I've been confused and in the dark
Now I understand

I wonder why it is
I don't argue like this
With anyone but you

I wonder why it is
I won't let my guard down
For anyone but you
You do it all the time
Blowin' out my mind

Just like a star across my sky
Just like an angel of the page
You have appeared to my life
Feel like I'll never be the same
Just like a song in my heart
Just like oil on my hand

Friday, March 20, 2009

survey

Things You May Not Have Known About Me:
1. What is your favorite non-alcoholic drink?
.coke.
2 . What are your bad habits?
.susah nak bangun tidur.
3 . Last time you went clubbing?
.recently.
4. Who was the last person to send you a text message?
.izi.
5. Last time you went swimming?
.never.
6 . Are you happy?
.busy not happy.
7 . Where was the last place you went shopping?
.sogo.
8. What did you bought?
.tank top n shoes.
9. What are your plans for today?
.doing my proposal.
10. Do you love sushi?
.no.
11. Want to kick anyone's ass?
.no.
12. What time is it?
.0332.
13. Do you have any expensive jewelry?
.no.
14 . YM or MSN?
.YM.
15. Friendster or multiply?
.Friendster.
16. How many hours on average do you work a week?
.0.
17. Who do you want to hug you right now?
.meme.
18. Did you watch the Olympics?
.need to do so bcoz my friend take part in the olympics game.
19. Last restaurant you went to?
.tanjung.
20. Who was the last person you called?
.izi.
21. Who was the last person you texted?
.izi.
22. What's your zodiac sign?
.libra.
23. What is your favourite song?
.sober.
24. Who sing that song?
.pink.
25. What is that song about?
.fragile girl.
26. Where do most of your relative/family live?
.chukai.
27. What is your favourite meal?
.mee soup.
28. What is your favourite dessert?
.pudding.
29. What is your favourite baverage?
.oreo milkshake.
30. Where do you spend most of your money?
.baju.
31. What is your favourite?
.dance.music.cook.gym.sing.travel.
32. What is your most favourite outdoors activity?
.hang out with friends.
33. What is your most favourite indoors activity?
.surf internet.
34. Collect anything?
.friends.
35. Myspace or Facebook?
.both.
36. Do you have a mobile phone?
.yes.
37. Last time you saw your parents?
.2 weeks ago.
38. How old are you?
.21.
39. Who’s your bestfriends
.izi & gee.
40. Who is the person you hate most?
.no.
41. What did s/he did to you?
.nothing.
43. Ever been to a wedding?
.of course.
44. Where is ur celphone?
.behind me.
45. Are u wearing glasses now?
.no.
46. Are you missing anyone at the moment?
.yes.
47. Did you take a nap today?
.of course.
48. How many hours of sleep did you get last night?
.0.
49. Do you support your friends?
.of course.
50. Do you know how to drive?
.of course.
51. Do you own a car?
.no.
52. Who’s your last holding hands?
.ecah.
53. Who’s your last kiss?
.anak (name of 1 of my cat).
54. Your last drink of beer?
.two days ago.
55. How many siblings do you have?
.1.
56. Does someone like you?
.i don't know.
57. Last thing you drank?
.nescafe.
58. What is your current wish?
.finish all my assignments.
59. Where are your parents?
.hometown.
60. Do you have any regrets?
.yes.
61. What are you wearing?
.top n short.
62. Do you have a pet?
.yes.
63. What are you using laptop or PC?
.both.
64. What did you have for breakfast?
.roti n milo.
65. Does sum1 hate u?
.i don't know.
66. Favorite place to be?
.outdoors.
67. Favorite fast food resto?
.secret recipe.
68. How is the weather today?
.hot.
69. Do you open your e-mail?
.very often.
70. Next party you'll attend?
.no idea.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

12032009.2am.

What are you doing right now?.surfing.reading.blogging.chatting.
Your current relationship status?.single.but.not.available.
When's the next time you'll see your closest friend?.'m.not.sure.
Are you happy?.no.
How do you feel?.nothing.
Last thing you drank?.hot.chocolate.
What color are your eyes?.black.
What are you going to do tonight?.sleep.
What are you wearing right now?.top&jeans.
Are you wearing make up?.no.
Do you always answer your phone?.regularly.
Did you kiss anyone in the last 24 hours?.flying.kisses.to.my.friends.
Who can you blame for your bad mood today?.nobody.
Who's the last person you messaged?.5zl.
When did your last hug take place?.terminal.makmur.
Is there someone you don't ever want to be out of your life?.yes.
Is there someone you don't ever want back into your life?.yes.
Do you get nervous before doctor appointments?.100%.
How many cats do you have?.5.
Have you ever tried to find the end of a rainbow?.never.
Have you chewed gum after someone else already has?.no.
What's the last thing you laughed at?.my.roomate.dila.
Have you ever gotten alcohol poisoning?.once.
Do you have on anyone else's clothes?.no.
Do you have any clothes belonging to your ex's?.no.
Do long distance relationships work?.nothing.is.impossible.
Where were you at 2:00 this morning?.here.
Will you be in a relationship in two months?.possibbly.
What color is your hair currently?.copper.to.black.
How did you feel when you woke up?.grateful.
What does your hair look like right now?.frizzy.
When was the last time you saw your father?.3years.ago.
Do you like your life as of now?.yes.
Do you think relationships are ever really worth it?.yes.
Are you easily intimidated?.yes.
Last movie you watched?.cintaku.forever.
What books are you reading?.penyelidikan.pendidikan.
Favorite Movie?.my.lovely.samsons.
Favorite Animal?.cats.of.course.
Who did you last talk to on the phone?.mymom.
Last peson you slapped across the face?.haha.
Is it true once a cheater always a cheater?.not.true.
Have you ever been in a car accident?.yes.
How has this week been?.still.busy.
Something good going to happen tomorrow?.i.hope.so.
Isn't it annoying when skinny girls say they're fat?.no.it's.just.like.me.
What was the last song you downloaded?.fob.america's.suiteheart.
Would you date someone 8 years older than you?.already.
What were you doing at 4am this morning?.sleep.
Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?.of.course.
What were your first thoughts this morning?.must.go.to.class.
Do you have any alcohol bottles or cans hidden in your room?.no.
Are you easily scared by horror movies?.not.really.
If someone gave you 100 dollars,would you spend or save it?.spend.it.of.course.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

paralyzer..~

I hold on so nervously
To me and my drink
I wish it was cooling me
But so far, has not been good
It's been shitty
And I feel awkward, as I should
This club has got to be
The most pretentious thing
Since I thought you and me
Well I am imagining
A dark lit place
Or your place or my place

Well I'm not paralyzed
But, I seem to be struck by you
I want to make you move
Because you're standing still
If your body matches
What your eyes can do
You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you

I hold out for one more drink
Before I think
I'm looking too desperately
But so far has not been fun
I should just stay home
If one thing really means one
This club will hopefully
Be closed in three weeks
That would be cool with me
Well I'm still imagining
A dark lit place
Or your place or my place

Well I'm not paralyzed
But, I seem to be struck by you
I want to make you move
Because you're standing still
If your body matches
What your eyes can do
You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you or me

We'll I'm not paralyzed
But, I seem to be struck by you
I want to make you move
Because you're standing still
If your body matches
What your eyes can do
You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you

I'm not paralyzed
But, I seem to be struck by you
I want to make you move
Because you're standing still
If your body matches
What your eyes can do
You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you

You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you

You'll probably move right through
Me on my way to you

Monday, March 9, 2009

Red one
Konvict
Ga Ga
Oh, yeah

I've had a little bit too much (much) (oh oh oh oh)
All of the people start to rush (start to rush by)
How does he twist the dance, cant find my drink oh man
Where are my keys, I lost my phone (phone) (oh oh oh oh)

What??s go-ing on on the floor?
I love this record baby but I cant see straight anymore
Keep it cool, what's the name of this club?
I can't remember but it's alright, a-alright

Just dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (duh-duh-duh)
Dance, dance, dance, just ju-ju-just dance

Wish I could shut my playboy mouth (mouth) (oh oh oh oh)
How'd I turn my shirt inside out? (inside out right)
Control your poison babe, roses have thorns they say
And we're all gettin' hosed tonight (night) (oh oh oh oh)

What's go-ing on on the floor?
I love this record baby but I can't see straight anymore
Keep it cool, what's the name of this club?
I can't remember but it's alright, a-alright

Just dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (duh-duh-duh)
Dance, dance, dance, just ju-ju-just dance

When I come through on the dance floor checkin' out that catalogue
Can't believe my eyes so many women without a flaw
And I ain't gonn' give it up, steady tryna pick it up like the call
I'ma hit it, I'ma hit it and flex until done 'til tomorr' yeah

Shawty I can see that you got so much energy
The way you twirlin' up them hips round and round
There's no reason, I know why you can't leave here with me
In the meantime stand, let me watch you break it down and

Dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (duh-duh-duh)
Dance, dance, dance, just ju-ju-just dance

I'm psychotic synchypnotic
I got my blue burners and phonic
I'm psychotic synchypnotic
I got my brand electronic
I'm psychotic synchypnotic
I got my blue burners and phonic
I'm psychotic synchypnotic
I got my brand electronic

Go, use your muscle carve it out work and hustle
I got it, just stay close enough to get it
Go slow, drive it, clean it like so clean it's been molesto (I got it)
And your popped coll' (I got it)

Just dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, spin that record babe (da-da-doo-doo)
Just dance, gonna be okay (duh-duh-duh)
Dance, dance, dance, just ju-ju-just dance

If i were a boy...~to the boys...

If I were a boy
even just for a day,
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
and throw on what I wanted and go
drink beer with the guys
and chase after girls,
I'd kick it with who I wanted
and I'd never get confronted for it
cause they'd stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
how it feels to love a girl,
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'cause I know how it hurts
when you lose the one you wanted
'cause he's taking you for granted
and everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
tell everyone it's broken
so they think
that I was sleeping alone
I'd put myself first
and make the rules as I go
'cause I know that she'd be faithful,
waiting for me to come home
(to come home)

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
how it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'cause I know how it hurts
when you lose the one you wanted
cause he's taken you for granted
and everything you had got destroyed!

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake,
think I'd forgive you like that?!
If you thought I would wait for you, you thought wrong

But you're just a boy,
you don't understand
how it feels to love a girl
someday you'll wish you were a better man...
You don't listen to her,
you don't care how it hurts
until you lose the one you wanted
'cause you taken her for granted
and everything you had got destroyed

but you're just a boy...

Better In Time...~

It's been the longest winter without you
I didn't know where to turn to
See somehow i can't forget you
After all that we've been through

Going
Coming
Thought i heard a knock(Whose there, Noone?)
Thinking that (I deserve it)
Now i have realised
that i really didn't knooOooOw

If you didn't notice
You mean everything (quickly I'm learning)
To love again (all i know is)
I'm be oooOook

(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you
It's going to hurt when it heals too
Oh yeaah (It'll All get better in time)
Even though i really love you
I'm gonna smile because i deserve too
Oooh(It'll all get better in time)

(Verse)
I couldn't turn on the TV
Without something that would remind me
Was it all that easy?
To just put us out your feeling

If i'm dreamin
Don't want to let it (hurt my feelings)
But that's the past (i believe it)
And i know that, time will heal it

If you didn't notice
Well you mean everything (quickly i'm learning)
Oooh turn up again (All i know is)
I'm be ok

(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
Oooh yeah(It'll all get better in time)
Even though i really love you
I'm gonna smile because i deserve too oooooh(It'll all get better in time)

(Bridge)
Since there's no more you and me (No more you and me)
This time i let you go so i can be free
And Live my life how it should be(No No No No No No)
No matter how hard it is
I will be fine without you
Yes i Will

(Chorus)
Thought i couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too
Oooh(It'll all get better in time)
Even though i really loved you
I'm gonna smile cos i deserve too yes i do(It'll all get better in time)

Thought i couldn't live without you
It's gonna hurt when it heals too yeaaaah Ooooh oooooh (It'll all get better in time)
Even though i really loved you
Going to smile cos i deserve too Ooooooh (It'll all get better....)

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Layan..

Sober
by Pink

I don't wanna be the girl who laughs the loudest
Or the girl who never wants to be alone
I don't wanna be that call at four o'clock in the morning
'Cause I'm the only one you know in the world that won't be home

Aahh, the sun is blinding
I stayed up again
Oohh, I am finding
That's not the way I want my story to end

[Chorus]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're my protection
But how do I feel this good sober?

I don't wanna be the girl who has to fill the silence...
The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth
Please don't tell me that we had that conversation
When I won't remember, save your breath, 'cause what's the use?

Aahh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, "come and play"
Aahh, I am falling
And if I let myself go, I'm the only one to blame

[Chorus]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?

Comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober

Comin' down
Comin' down
Comin' down
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Spinnin' round
Looking for myself.. Sober

When it's good, then it's good, it's so good, 'till it goes bad
Till you're trying to find the you that you once had
I have hurt myself, cried,
Never again
Broken down in agony
And just trying to find a friend

[Chorus]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?

[Chorus]
I'm safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party's over?
No pain
Inside
You're like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?

How do I feel this good sober?

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Survey

Has a song ever made you cry?

+ terlalu istimewa-adibah noor



Freedom or safety?

+ freedom



Last thing that made you cry

+ war @gaza



How many keys are on your keychain?

+ many..main door,main grille,gate,back door,back grille,my room,2nd room,third room..



Whose mind, besides your own, would you like to control?

+ nobody..let 'em with their thought



If you were invisible, where would you go?

+ somewhere...over the rainbow ;)



What is your favorite thing about being sick?

+ treated & no need to go to class..hehe



Where is the worst place to be stuck waiting?

+ the hot places..



Name one celebrity that has no right being a celebrity

+its not my bussines..sorry



How often do you log in to friendster?

+ regularly



Has anyone said a stupid comment to you today?

+ nop



Ever fight with a pet?

+ haha..a very long time ago..during my childhood



Honestly, have you had an eating disorder?

+ i don't think so..i'm very proper whut?? hehe



Do you think just by viewing your page, people can see who you really are?

+ maybe..



Did you fill out every section on you page?

+ yes



Do you bite your nails?

+ annoying! of course i'm not!



Do you have a ceiling fan in your room, and if so, is there dust on that fan?

+ yes..ehmm..a little..thinking to send it to the laundry (if i can)



On a rainy day,your most likely doing what?

+ just stay at home...



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Sunday, March 1, 2009

Treatment for Dark Under Eye Circles

Grated potatoes can lighten under-eye circles. Potatoes contain an enzyme called catecholase, which is used in cosmetics as a human skin lightener.

Run one spud through your food processor and stuff the raw mash into a piece of cheesecloth. Apply to the area directly beneath your eye don't let the potato juice come in contact with the eye itself and leave for 15 to 20 minutes.

Girls Slumber Party

Remember when your biggest problem was choosing a prom gown or letting the boy you liked know how you felt? Ahh, those were the days. Problems seemed so great, yet in the grand scheme of things, you really only needed a chocolate milkshake or a pint of Ben & Jerry's to assuage your every concern.

Now, with faster-paced lives, more personal and familial responsibilities and even greater problems, sometimes it takes more than a chocolate milkshake or even a gallon of Chunky Monkey could tackle.

For an easier take on life, women truly need to make time for their families, their friends, and essentially, themselves. The key to a successful balance is making time for these entities separately, resulting in a happier life with reduced stressors and a more relaxed outlook.

Family time and personal time can be arranged on a day-to-day basis, with special family meals and movie time, game time or special trips and outings together on the weekends. Bubble baths, naps, scrap-booking, baking and shopping provide nice options for alone time, while activities like yoga, Pilates and general exercise routines can be as good for the soul as they are for the body.

To complete the balance, women should keep in touch with friends and plan get-togethers at least once a year, but preferably more often. As people grow up and move on with their lives, it is common that many friends may find themselves miles and miles, and even states apart. This may call for an old-school approach to the common problems of womanhood.

So who says you're too old for sleepovers once you're married, anyway? Toss your cares to the wind and call up all your old friends and all your new ones in an effort to get the gang together for a night of relaxation, reminiscence and rejuvenation. Send the kids to your parents' or your husband's parents' house (or failing that, to their friend's house for a sleepover!). Dash out to the supermarket to pick up a few key snacks and ask each friend to bring a goodie to eat and a goodie for the soul.

Acceptable edible goodies for slumber party:

  • Baked goods especially cookies, cupcakes, candy, pastries, etc.
  • Cheese and crackers
  • Veggie tray
  • Shrimp cocktail or other hors d'oeuvres
  • Pizza
  • Tea and hot cocoa
  • Other delicious foods

While it is nice to eat healthy and practice a diet all the time, sometimes a little snack here or there might not hurt. Be sure to offer both junk food and healthy food options in case your guests have just begun a new diet. Faithful standbys like ice cream and frozen treats may best be provided by the hostess.

Goodies for the soul may include:

  • Photos and scrapbooks from your earlier days
  • Home videos and especially videos showing each other
  • Favorite movies, especially chick flicks
  • Craft projects like knitting and crocheting
  • Pedicure kits
  • Manicure kits and plenty of nail polish
  • Facials
  • Aromatherapy
  • Music
  • Girly magazines
  • Board games and other fun activities

During your girls slumber party, relax and revisit your past. Spend time with your girlfriends' the women who got you through all those tough times and influenced you enough to have even a slight impact on who you are today.

Take the time to go through photographs from years gone by. Enjoy every moment and take new photographs so you have more memories to hold dear. Watch an old favorite movie and reminisce about the days in college when the flick was your soul's medicine during every bad day or every break-up. Indulge in sweet temptations, even if this is the last time before you start your diet.

How to look sexy without being sleazy?



Women strive to make themselves look sexy and attractive and this is a fun and exciting endeavor. But the key is to be sexy without looking sleazy.



To achieve this, just add a couple of unexpected accessories and some sensual essentials. There are a lot of ways to express your sexuality, not just by donning a micro skirt. Here are a few tips on how to add sensuality without sacrificing your modesty and class.
Put on red lipstick. Remember, nothing does the job better than red, no matter what you think. It will add a splash of color and a stylish alluring vibe. For young girls, yes, sexy girls are fine shimmer merry lip gloss is good, older women should choose matte red that best suits their skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; orangey hues for olive; true reds for blondes).

A nice pair of sunglasses will add mystery and a cute look, as well as protect your eyes.
Add a hat. Think of Sarah Jessica with all her hats and panamas! It is a perfect way to get a major sex appeal. You can start with classic shapes, such as fedora or beret.
Experiment with shoulder-duster earrings, they work great for the after-dark look, especially when combined with bare shoulders and updos. Wear metallic. It has a great luminous effect and, in addition, is one of the hottest looks this spring.

Go for fabrics that feel nice against your skin, like cashmere, silky satin and buttery soft suede.

Look for exotic dresses that add feminine charm and intrigue. Harem pants, sarongs and embroided items are the ethnic looks borrowed by Western designers from Asia and North Africa.

Play peek-a-boo: do not bare your breast. Nude linings, camisoles and slips will keep you covered and at the same time they look suggestive.
Do experiment with different types of sexy lingerie. Try Sheer Lingerie ;)

Tricks for Fuller Lips

How to achieve fuller lips?

To make lips look fuller, line lips with a pencil and then blend the edges with a sponge applicator. Cover with gloss or petroleum jelly.

How to get that pouty lip look?

Excentuate your top lip by dabbing just a touch of gloss in the center.

Highlight your lips with a very light eye shadow color that coordinates with your lip color tones. Place it right in the center of your upper and lower lips.

Wardrobe Basics-Items every woman should have?

Weather you are just starting out in this world and need to put a foundation wardrobe in place or if you are giving your wardrobe a refresher here are some wardrobe ideas to help you get started.

Two pairs of dark slacks - either black or navy blue. Go with a slim cut in a wool crepe or a seasonless cotton.

One pair of dark slacks for the evening with a fuller cut. These can be a fabric that drapes either a light wool or jersey mix.

Two pairs of jeans -one hemmed for heels and the other hemmed for flats. Jeans that are hemmed for heels you should see just the toe box.

Three skirts - a pencil skirt, a A-line skirt which incidentally looks good on all body types and a skirt in a neutral fabric so you can mix and match with others items like tweed, wool or boucle.

Shirts - A white button front shirt and a few t-shirts.

Three sweaters - The fabric should be a lightweight, merino or cashmere

  • One should be black and match your black trousers.
  • The second one should be more neutral like off-white, camel or taupe.
  • The third sweater should just simple be a sweater that you love and feel great in. Nothing too dressy - one you can wear to the office and with jeans.

Two Jackets

  • A tailored jacket that matches your black pants.
  • A sporty leather jacket

Three coats

  • A classic trench coat or raincoat with a zip -out wool liner for multiple seasons.
  • A knee-length transition coat that works for day and night.
  • A winter coat in a wool or cashmere blend or if you live in a warmer climate try tropical wool.

Dress -A little black dress


Three Bags

  • A classic leather style with clean lines that works for everything.
  • A catch all fun tote bag
  • A envelope shaped, bracelet style for the evening.

Shoes (5 pairs)

  • A pair of black pumps 2.5-3.5 inch heel in a the current style.
  • A evening shoe with a close toe in a black satin.
  • A pair of tall black boots
  • Bad-weather boots
  • A pair of sneakers or tennis shoes.